Please note: BILY has no affiliation with the below listed resources,
however we do use these resources as a great reference point.
Opportunities for Youth
Recommended Reading
Back In Control: How To Get Your Children To Behave by Gregory Bodenhamer
Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change by Jeffrey Foote,PHD, Carrie Wilkens, PHD and Nicole Kosanke, PHD, with Stephanie Higgs


Boundaries With Kids:

How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend (although BILY is not a faith based program, this book is faith based)


The New Codependency: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie

Parent As Coach: Helping your teen build a life of confidence, courage and compassion  by Diana Haskins


​​From Innocence to Entitlement:

A Love and Logic Cure for the Tragedy of Entitlement by Jim Fay and Dawn Billings

P​arent Babble:
​How Parents Can Recover from Fifty Years of Bad Expert Advice​ by John Rosemond

Parenting Teens with Love & Logic:

Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood by Foster Cline, MD & Jim Fay​

​Stop Negotiating With Your Teen:
Strategies for Parenting Your Angry, Manipulative, Moody, or Depressed Adolescent by Janet Sasson Edgett, Psy.D., M.P.H.


Fostering Responsible Decision Making in Your Teenager  by John Rosemond

The Power of Habit:

Why We Do what We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg