Resources
Please note: BILY has no affiliation with the below listed resources,
however we do use these resources as a great reference point.
Anonymous Support Groups
Inspiration and Encouragement
Recommended Reading
Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change by Jeffrey Foote,PHD, Carrie Wilkens, PHD and Nicole Kosanke, PHD, with Stephanie Higgs
Boundaries With Kids:
How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend (although BILY is not a faith based program, this book is faith based)
The New Codependency: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
Parent As Coach: Helping your teen build a life of confidence, courage and compassion by Diana Haskins
From Innocence to Entitlement:
A Love and Logic Cure for the Tragedy of Entitlement by Jim Fay and Dawn Billings
Parent Babble:
How Parents Can Recover from Fifty Years of Bad Expert Advice by John Rosemond
Parenting Teens with Love & Logic:
Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood by Foster Cline, MD & Jim Fay
Stop Negotiating With Your Teen:
Strategies for Parenting Your Angry, Manipulative, Moody, or Depressed Adolescent by Janet Sasson Edgett, Psy.D., M.P.H.
Teen-Proofing:
Fostering Responsible Decision Making in Your Teenager by John Rosemond
The Power of Habit:
Why We Do what We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg
The Parallel Process: Growing Alongside Your Adolescent or Young Adult Child in Treatment:
by Krissy Pozatek
The Journey of the Heroic Parent: Your Child's Struggle & The Road Home:
by Brad M. Reedy
The Dangerous Truth About Today's Marijuana:
Johnny Stack's Life and Death by Laura Slack
The Lost Years:
Surviving a Mother and Daughter's Worst Nightmare by Kristina Wandziliak and Constance Curry
Get Your Loved One Sober:
Alternatives to Nagging, Pleading, and Threatening by Robert J. Meyers
BILY Articles
Drug Awareness Videos
Information about Kids
and the Law
Community Resources
OC Links Hotline - 855-625-4657
California Youth Services (JADE/DECISIONS)
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance of Orange County
Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
Medi-Cal: Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)
(Saddleback Church)
(although BILY is not a faith based program, some of these resources are faith based)
National Alliance on Mental Illness Orange County (NAMI)
Orange County Center for Resiliency, Education & Wellness - OC CREW
Pepperdine Resource, Youth Diversion, & Education (PRYDE)
Wellness & Prevention Center San Clemente
San Diego Access and Crisis Line
San Diego Access and Crisis Line
"When It's Time To Get A Life" Love & Logic