Resources
Please note: BILY has no affiliation with the below listed resources,
however we do use these resources as a great reference point.
BILY Articles
Information about Kids
and the Law
Inspiration and Encouragement
Opportunities for Youth
Recommended Reading
Back In Control: How To Get Your Children To Behave by Gregory Bodenhamer
Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change by Jeffrey Foote,PHD, Carrie Wilkens, PHD and Nicole Kosanke, PHD, with Stephanie Higgs
Boundaries With Kids:
How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend (although BILY is not a faith based program, this book is faith based)
The New Codependency: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
Parent As Coach: Helping your teen build a life of confidence, courage and compassion by Diana Haskins
From Innocence to Entitlement:
A Love and Logic Cure for the Tragedy of Entitlement by Jim Fay and Dawn Billings
Parent Babble:
How Parents Can Recover from Fifty Years of Bad Expert Advice by John Rosemond
Parenting Teens with Love & Logic:
Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood by Foster Cline, MD & Jim Fay
Stop Negotiating With Your Teen:
Strategies for Parenting Your Angry, Manipulative, Moody, or Depressed Adolescent by Janet Sasson Edgett, Psy.D., M.P.H.
Teen-Proofing:
Fostering Responsible Decision Making in Your Teenager by John Rosemond
The Power of Habit:
Why We Do what We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg
Articles on Drugs and Drug Use
Get Smart About Drugs
(a DEA resource for parents, educators, and caregivers)
Heroin
Heroin rates keep rising at California hospitals - UT San Diego 3/5/15
Intervention Guide - drugfree.org
Marijuana Concentrates | THC Extractions
Marijuana: Science and Strategies
Marijuana Use and Academic Problems
Pot-smoking and the Schizophrenia Connection
Community Resources
OC Links Hotline - 855-625-4657
California Youth Services (JADE/DECISIONS)
Community Outreach Alliance (COA)
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance of Orange County
Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
Emergency Housing Information
Medi-Cal: Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)
(Saddleback Church)
(although BILY is not a faith based program, some of these resources are faith based)
Solving the Puzzle to Your Child's Success
National Alliance on Mental Illness Orange County (NAMI)
National Alliance for Suicide Prevention
National Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence - Orange County
Orange County Center for Resiliency, Education & Wellness - OC CREW
Pacific Hills Treatment Center
Pepperdine Resource, Youth Diversion, & Education (PRYDE)
San Diego Addiction and Drug Rehab Information
Treatment Facilities in San Diego County
Yellow Ribbon Suicide Prevention
Wellness & Prevention Center San Clemente
Wellness & Prevention Center - San Clemente HS Save Our Students (SOS)
Tools for Parents
Recovery Process - Minor (blank form)
Recovery Process - Adult (blank form)
Therapeutic Boarding School Research Questions
How to Find Treatment Document